On one mission in Afganistan, I met with some of the women in Afghanistan. In 2010, I deployed to Afghanistan with the Army as part of a Provincial Recontruction Team. Today I’m sharing part of my experience of when we went to the capital to meet women in Afghanistan. This was originally an email sent home to family and friends that have been modified with additional details and edits for this blog. If you would like to learn more about my deployment click here.
Mission to the Capital of Kapisa to meet women in Afghanistan
On one of the missions I went on we went to the capital of Kapisa (Mahmud-i-Raqi) During that mission I was able to go to a Women’s Shelter, which was an interesting experience. We (three females from the Provincial Reconstruction Team and a male interpreter) were able to drop off supplies and hear about the different issues that the women in Afghanistan have. The main issue was most of the women’s husbands were addicted to drugs and abused them. They were at the shelter not because they wanted a divorce, but wanted help for their husbands. The shelter also provides counseling and medical services.
We were also able to meet with the Director of Women’s Affairs. Overall, the meeting went well. We were given plans for a women’s park and we are working on gathering information to possibly provide a women’s park in the future.
Fixing the Generator
As we were leaving she asked if we could get her a new generator. She said that it no longer worked. One issue that the people in Afghanistan have is they don’t understand modern Western technology. When we asked what they were using as fuel for the generator they said water.
There is a disconnect between Western technology and Afghanistan that it is hard to truly make progress. We are pushing our western ways onto people who don’t even know what to use to make a generator work. We tried to explain that the generator needs fuel, not water to work properly, but you could tell that through the translation and lack of understanding she just wanted the generator to work.
We hope to be able to help people understand the basic principles of running a generator, but are running out of time. Hopefully, we can start to make progress and the next team can build on what we have started.
Seeing the Children
After the meetings were over, I was able to interact with a group of children while another meeting took place. It was fun to spend time with the children. They know so much, they pretended like they didn’t know any English, but as we prodded them and interacted we found one of the kids who spoke pretty good English.
We had fun talking to the kids, showed them pictures of our kids and spouses. I think my long blonde hair mesmerized them. They kept asking me to show it to them. Since we were in a safe place I would. We asked them different questions about the area. I think this is one of the best missions I went on.
I got to spend time with some children and they are the future of Afghanistan and hopefully, we were able to give them a positive view of America.
P.S. They all love John Cena. 🙂